We people who have to prepare to speak before other people often find themselves in a place of gridlock. The fear of being repetitive and boring stares you in the face. I constantly am working on preparing free sermon outlines. So I understand what its like to deal with brain freeze in speech preparation.

How do you put this fear in its place and develop a speech that is unique and dynamic. May I suggest that you use your senses to help you describe whatever it is you are talking about. I’ll spend more time on the first one and then you can apply it to the rest where I will just share an example or two.

1. The Sense of Sight

When you are making your speech, think of how you can visually describe what you are wanting to get across. Let’s use an example throughout this article to help illustrate the points. Let’s imagine you are giving a speech about how to deal with stress.

In what way could you visually describe stress so that it becomes something your audience can see.

If stress were a car, what kind would it be and what would it look like? Stress could be a NASCAR car with its engine maxed out going over 200 MPH dodging and darting through traffic and one wreck after another just trying to survive and win the race while doing it.

Stress could be dump truck going up a long steep incline loaded to the axle, downshifting every few yards trying to make it to the top.

You can think of other examples. By employing these word pictures, your audience will connect and enjoy thinking of something so common in a new way.

This really helps me in my free online bible study. Try using this method and see if your verbal barrages begin to improve.

Go ahead, play with it! Stress could be an insect. Stress could be a favorite toy. Stress could be a soft drink. Knock the socks of your boredom and use your eyes to describe stress.

2. The Sense of Smell
The same is applicable to the other senses. Think of how you can describe your topic in terms of smell.

You can make it a favorite perfume or something that stinks. To stick with the example, how would you describe stress in terms of scent.

Stress is like driving by a dairy farm (visual) and then the scent comes into the car. It begins as a slightly discomforting smell and then proceeds to gag you, so you speed up to get through it. Similar to day a work!

You can come up with other examples, you get the drift, pun intended.

3. The Sense of Sound
Stress is like an alarm clock set on snooze, the longer it goes on, the more disturbing it becomes. It also begins to annoy everyone else in the house.

4. The Sense of Taste
Stress is like eating jalapeno peppers. At first it doesn’t seem like it’s too bad. But keep at it and you’ll be up all night paying the price.

5. The Sense of Touch
Stress is like grabbing onto a live wire. You know its going to kill you if you don’t let go, but you can’t. You need help!

This little tactic can go a long way to breaking you out of the gridlock of boredom.

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The Law of Attraction and The Master Key System

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The Law of Attraction
In 1913, Charles F. Haanel first introduced a very special course called The Master Key System. This 24 week course has been the basis for many now-famous seminars, books like like Napoleon Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich” and motion pictures like ”The Moses Code”. The Master Key System is considered to be the grand-daddy of all self-improvement courses and it introduced the widely popular concept of the Law of Attraction. The Universal Law of Attraction really does work, but it is also widely misunderstood.

Our Link To The Universe
One of the basic ideas in the course concerns the nature of the mind and it’s relation to the universe. Haanel taught that human beings are linked to the universe through the unconscious mind. A better term is the non-conscious mind because in our today’s world unconscious has taken a connotation that implies something less than the conscious mind. That is certainly not Haanel’s viewpoint. The Law of Attraction functions as a result of the relationship between the non-conscious mind and the universe. Haanel also taught that the role of the conscious mind is to stear the non-conscious mind in the right direction… primarily through the power of visualization. So let’s take a look at how that can work at a practical level.

If you want to own a building, you can’t just say ”I intend to build a building.” and that makes the building to suddenly manifest out of thin air. Nobody believes that would ever really happen, but that way of thinking represents a common misunderstanding of the Law of Attraction. Instead you manifest the building in your mind in detail using designs and blueprints. This visualization is given power by the force of the emotions as you get excited about the project that is mentally manifesting. That motivates the non-conscious parts of the mind which, in turn, interact with the universe to create… or attract… the different things that are needed to actually manifest the physical building. This way of doing things seems intuitive, and The Master Key System provides a systematic theory and series of exercises that help individuals really make it happen.

Why Does The Law of Attraction Fail Sometimes?
Even so, there are some people who always seem to be able to make happen what they want and others that seem to have difficultly making anything happen. Why is that? For an answer we have to look more deeply into the esoteric theories of the both human energy field and how subtle energy manifests into the world of matter.

Human beings are always in communication with each other and the universe through what ayurvedic theory calls the nadis. In fact, the nadis are the playing field for the Law of Attraction. So, extremely subtle energetic information flows back and forth through the nadis. At a slightly grosser manifestation level, information flows in the mental energy body. That is the realm of ideas and visualization. So, when you visualize the building, the mental body is where the action is taking place. At a still more dense level the information flows in the emotional energy body. That, of course, is the playing field of the emotions. And at a still grosser manifestation, the information moves in the physical energy body, which can be thought of as a mold for the actual physical body.

Each of the individual chakras functions in all of these energy bodies communicating specific types (or frequencies) of information throughout the entire energetic field. The information is stored in the extraordinary meridians and communicated throughout the physical body by the main meridians. In this manner, each organ and tissue receives the correct instructions for how it is to work. Acupuncture and chakra balancing emphasize the important of balance in the energy field. Things don’t work right if there is imbalance anywhere, because imbalance means that the information being communicated either doesn’t get to the right places or gets there in a distorted form. The mis-information can occur anywhere in the human energetic system and can cause dysfunction in the physical world, the emotions, the mental world, or in the nadis.

The Secret In the Human Energy Field
Since The Law of Attraction’s visualization functions in the mental energy body, it’s motivating emotional force functions in the emotional energy body, it’s non-conscious communication with the universe functions in the nadis, and actual manifestation takes place in the physical energy body, the implication is that if the human energy field is in a state of imbalance and creating erroneous information, the Law of Attraction will not function properly. If the information exchanged with the universe through the nadis is incorrect, how can The Law of Attraction satisfactorily yield results?

And remember that in energetic healing, distortions in the human energy system can be permanent unless they are cleaned. That might cause permanent dysfunction in the Law of Attraction. The key to The Law of Attraction working is a cleaned and balanced energy field.

Giving happiness to self and others is the TRUE SUCCESS. Amazing variety of applications for you to achieve the success that you desire

Success should always embrace the aspects of life. Some people are heroes at work. But result losers in their family arena. Some are good with their family. But of no use to society. We should be an all rounder. A whole individual,just as god pretended us to be.

EXAMPLE: a mango seed which grows and gives its sweet fruit to the world. It doesn’t demands anything. It does nothing. Just remains true to its nature. And it finds fulfillment and completeness.

EXAMPLE: when RAMA came from Lanka, after winning the battle. He was asked how he won the battle. Rather taking the credit by himself, he acknowledged everybody’s contribution. It was the hall mark of a true leader. Success through hypnosis- go for power of conversational hypnosis

Why do we want success? It is only there for the perfection and higher self. If we understand that success is a natural desire then there will be no problem. It will not depend on anyone’s failure. And we will not gain it by pulling others down. Deep sense of contentment and completeness will be our joy.

As you set out to create success in your life, you are using the Law of Attraction, regardless of if you know it or not.

Setting a goal and reaching it may seem to be a straight forward process, but we often run into blockages or setbacks on the way to the goal.

It is how we deal with these bumps in the road that will determine the level of success.

Some people seem to breeze through to their dreams, while others let hardships stop them from ever reaching their goals.

“Do some people have a natural tendency for persistence while others are easily distracted from their goals?”

To create something new in life it is fist necessary to have the desire. It is at this point that many people lose focus. They think that they need everything under the sun to create the perfect life. Having too long a list of goals makes it hard to reach any of them.

Once you can zero in on two to three goals, you can put a plan if action into place to achieve them.

Also important at this step is to be sure that your goals excite you. persistence can be easywhen you have the positive energy that working toward something that you really want provides.

The next step is to take the consistent actions that will bring you to your goals.

This is where it can be easy to fail. You may decide that the target you set for yourself was too high, or that the sacrifices you have to make are too great.

What all this boils down to is resistance. You find yourself resisting the very things that you are trying to achieve.

Excuses, like “I’m too tired” or “No one else has to do this” can sabotage your intentions.

“How do some people make it look so easy?”

Chances are they have worked on not resisting anything that they have to do to create success.

“Are you a winner or a whiner?”‘

We all have seen whiners in action. Every little inconvenience is blown out of proportion. Their motto seems to be “Why me? Why do I have to do this?”

This type of attitude is not going to translate into creating success.

When distractions and setbacks roll off you like water off a duck’s back, you are in the right space for manifesting success.

You will encounter what seem like detours, and setbacks, but these are the challenges that you have to face in order to manifest your desires. Things the at first may seem like detours are often the paths to something greater than you imagined.

When you what something in life you have to earn it. If you want a great body, you have to put in the time to work out. You’ll feel great when you reach your goals because you will know all the things that you had to overcome to get there.

You will have paid the price of admission to your new life. Learn more about resistance and how to stop it, and begin attracting your true desires.

Personal astrology with the advent of the Internet is a fast growing service now being used by more and more people across the world.

Real astrology is no longer an obscure science to be understood by the select few or being used only as an entertainment medium. There are according to some, ‘real’ benefits to ‘real’ astrology. So what exactly is it that personalised astrology has to offer the individual?

Primarily personal astrology it is said is all about you and your potential in this lifetime. Astrology is according to advocates a tool to greater self understanding and to greater self-awareness that allows you to move through life with more clarity and a clearer idea of who you are.

Astrology is said to give a clearer perspective of your experiences and of all those around you, plus in the case of ‘relationship astrology’ it is claimed to give us a greater understanding of our interactions with other individuals too.

Understanding the energies and the elements working with-in astrology will, if we are prepared to ‘buy into’ the concepts give us a deeper and more fulfilling understanding of our life and of the world around us.

My advice, before beginning to learn astrology , it’s best to have a clear understanding of the Solar System. This understanding can be obtained without going into all the elaborate details that Astronomy is concerned with. An Astrologers, require only a general understanding of Astronomy’s broad outlines are therefore all that is required, and without being proficient in mathematics, anyone with an menial level of education may learn quite simply all that I have to say on this subject.

The Art has an unlimited amount of these solar systems, of varying sizes - some larger and some smaller than our own. When we realise this, our minds expand, our vision becomes clearer and our hearts can fill with wonder and reverence for that unknowable and great supreme power that is the primary cause of all glory that fills the all of space. However, no amount of guesswork concerning other solar systems can reveal the true state of affairs in the broad expanse of the heavens. Therefore, it becomes more profitable to confine our attention, for the time being, to the solar system of which we form a part, leaving the study of fixed stars with their immense magnitudes and distances out of our present considerations.

Example:

If we were to draw a circle, and in it’s centre place a single point, we would have a representation of ourselves in relation to space. Using our imagination to further explore this idea to think of the Sun as being in the centre of and enormous circle, extending many millions of kilometres into space, then we may comprehend and understand what the circumference of the solar system means. It will do you well to ponder over this amazing and wonderful system. In the past, the Sun was recognised as the home and source of the primal energy from which all light and life comes. It being in fact the centre or, as we would term it for practical purposes, the body of the Logos of the solar system. From this glorious body, radiates the light which illuminates the whole, and there can be no grander concept of God than this idea of One who sustains the whole of His universe by His manifestation, the Sun: “In him we live, move, and have our being”.

All bigoted conceptions of religion must fade into insignificance as we realise that the Sun is the life and light of ourselves, and of the entire system.

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When it comes down to fully utilizing to the Law of Attraction, just reading the books is often not enough.

You can read a book telling you how to drive a car, or how to play golf, but that does not replace the role of a golf or driving instructor.

Your learning is accelerated when you have someone able to guide you. You can learn how to use your vibrational resonance to attract anything and everything you wish. It may seem abstract at the moment, but this is absolutely what determines your experience of reality. So, to the extent that you can modify your vibration, you can modify your experience of reality.

If you have watched the movie “The Secret”, you have heard of the teacher of the Law of Attraction Bob Doyle.

I discovered more about him as I learned more about the different teachers featured in “The Secret”.

Last year Bob Doyle created a 45 day challenge social network on ning, allowing people from all walks of life and around the world to share their goals and intentions.

I was one of the many participants. It was great to instantly meet and connect with people around the world working on applying the Law of Attraction to their lives.

I felt that even though I didn’t reach every goal that I had set for myself, the ones that I did reach helped me to improve my life greatly. It was also nice to share my aspirations with others in a friendly and supportive environment.

The 45 day challenge social network quickly evolved into a fun and active community of people all striving for positive change in their lives.

It fostered a real connection to Bob Doyle, who made himself open and available to all the members by sharing the progress of his own challenge goals.

He was working on playing music in public, and as a musician I could relate to his nervousness. He enlisted the help of some of the coaches his company uses for one to one coaching sessions, and the use of the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT).

The EFT techniques that were shared via tele-seminars and later available though recordings of the calls, were a great deal of fun to be a part of and very enlightening. He ended the challenge with a get together in Atlanta where he preformed, showing us all how fears can be overcome.

Bob Doyle has taught many people how to use the Law of Attraction in their lives and create what they desire though his online courses: Wealth Beyond Reason and Six Figure Income Streams.

He is currently launching his “Wealth Beyond Reason 2.0″, which features a new look and feel for teaching the Law of Attraction. With this course you will be able to pinpoint the areas were you are resisting attracting what you desire. Check out his introduction to the course and learn about what Wealth Beyond Reason can do for your life!

There seems to be an ever increasing focus in the area of self improvement articles in the world today as we see more and more of us looking to be, do and have more in both our personal as well as in our professional lives. Some of the things that we should consider in the area of self improvement classes are outlined below, focussing on these will ensure that your life moves forward in the direction that you desire and that you continue to improve with your self improvement classes.

a) Am I comfortable with what I’m doing ? : This is a key question when it comes to self improvement classes as there is always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and whatnot. It doesn’t take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else we’ll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.

b) Have I done enough for myself ? : Dealing with self improvement audio books means that we should pay attention to ourselves; Have you, or is there something more you want to do? Discontentment in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you’ll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.

c) Am I happy at where I am today ? : It’s an unfair question so let it be an answer! You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life and is vital when we are looking to focus on our self improvement leadership !

d) Am I appealing to the opposite sex ? : So maybe I don’t have an answer to that, but that doesn’t mean I can’t try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit.

e) How much could I have ? : The self improvement leadership talks freely about abundance and prosperity and we suppose in this case there is no such things on having things too much or too little, but it’s more on how badly you really need it. I’d like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is that how much are you willing to work for it?

f) What motivates me ? : What motivates you? this relates to overall self improvement tips and various areas of life. It’s an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of the may be the hardest part. It’s not like you can’t have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that’s it. Just try it piece by piece.

g) What Really Makes You Tick ? : So ? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realize that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it’s something that you really want.

As we look to make progress in life, focussing on these key self improvement leadership, self improvement classes as well as self improvement in the workplace areas will see us move closer to our dreams, goals and desires.

Like beauty, success is in the eye of the beholder.Whether you become successful in life is truly dependent upon your personal definition of “success”. For some success is obtaining great wealth, money and prestige. For others it is raising a happy family. Still for others it could be health,prosperity a fruitful social life. Regardless of what your definition of success is one fact remains true, you must have a clear vision of what you want in order to obtain what you seek. Your goals cannot be vague or fuzzy they must be solid, firmly set in your minds eye as though you have already received them. This was the basis for my creating the Life Success Library.com, a website that offers e-programs from various authors all geared to several aspects of success. There are many such reference libraries out there and they’re a great way to research your goals. But for now, let’s take each definition of success and break it down starting with wealth.

It is not enough to just say, I want to be rich. After all, who doesn’t? Ask yourself the more important question, what does “rich” mean to me? How much money would it take for me personally to declare myself wealthy? You may be surprised to learn that this number changes from person to person. What may be considered rich by one individual may barely scratch the surface of wealth to another. One may wish for the treasures of Solomon while another simply wants enough to comfortably take care of their family and retire. So once again ask yourself, what would it take for me to be financially satisfied? Once you have this figure established firmly in your mind next ask yourself, what am I willing to do to get it and what am I lacking that keeps me from meeting my goal? Can you write the next great novel or screenplay? Do you have a great idea for a product that you feel the world is just waiting in line to buy? If not, your next best bet is to start a home business. Research libraries such as the ones I mentioned earlier would be your best place to start. If you feel you lack the knowledge necessary, look in on local community college classes. Some courses are no more than a few weeks long and you can take them at night. Whatever your path, DO NOT let anyone including yourself get in the way to your goal.

Now let’s considerHealth, Family and Social life success.I combine these because one can either lead to or contribute to the others. For example, a healthy life can mean a longer and happier family life free from the burdens of severe health issues. A happy family life will lead all including any children that may exist or come along in the future to having a more level, well adjusted social life. This formula can work in reverse as well starting with a happy social life leading to a successful family life contributing to a healthier and longer life. Everything is connected.

For some health, family and a good social life is worth more than all the money in the world. For these individuals life success is just a matter of viewpoint and adjustments. Remember, we can’t control the actions of others but we can control our own. Once we gain control of our own inner-selves the world around us can seem to alter in a positive light. I have posted several programs regarding this at Life Success Library.com because I know the life changing positive affects this can have on the lives of people just like you and I.

Whatever your situation in life may be, whatever your personality may reflect, you can take control of your existence if you know where you wish to go, who you want to be and be firmly determined to make the path clear to obtain it.

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Have you ever been asked that question?

I was!

Back in 1979 while doing a “pressure cooker” course on selling with an insurance company!

I wondered how relevant that question was, considering my personal and financial situation at the time.

No wife!

No job!

I was a solo dad with three children, one of them a baby less than a year old.

“You must be kidding”, I thought to myself at the time!

What relevance can that have to me learning to sell insurance policies?

How naive I was!

The course that followed had an unbelievably positive and a life changing effect on me. Although it only took affect several years later. The seed had been sown!

You’re probably saying to yourself, “How can a course on selling life insurance have that much effect on anyone?”

Well that Insurance Company was the one created by W Clement Stone.

I found the course to be very challenging, because in New Zealand at that time we weren’t really aware of the “Hype” that Americans used to motivate their workers to perform at their optimum. It pleases me each time I think about it now, to know that I passed, top of the class and received a book as a reward, this book was already a best seller, but I’d never heard of it.

Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude, of which W Clement Stone was co-author with Napoleon Hill. They shared their secrets on becoming wealthy and having a healthy, productive lifestyle, utilising the power of a “positive mental attitude”. Sadly my motivation and my persistence waned and I stopped selling insurance.

I kept all the information, studies and the book I had won.

The “BOOK” Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude, which I never opened or read for probably 3 years.

However I did continue two very positive things! I continued to read on a daily basis some of his quotes and I even put them on the wall. My two

Favourites were;

“Success is achieved and maintained by those who try and keep trying” and

“Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve”.

The second thing and the one which I believed the most important was “Goal Setting” I enjoyed the challenge and had learned enough during the course to

realise its long term value.

Life began to take several steps in the right direction not major ones, but positive ones.

Several important things happened in my life over the next 12 years.

Around 1981-2 I began reading, Through a Positive Mental Attitude,

I applied so many of their ideas and formulae, and by 1992 mine and my families life had completely turned around, this included a wonderful wife and two more children and a list of goals I had made in 1986 after father passed away, became a reality.

I had arrived finally, or so I thought, and was ready to respond to the question that still continued to bother me after all those years.

What Does RICH Mean To You?

I had some answers!

That’s what I believed anyway!

1 - ” A consistent income created from hard work

2 - ” A healthy family

3 - ” A loving wife and loving children

4 - “A nice car

5 - ” A great holidays

There are other things, but they are either directly or indirectly related to the above list.

Even now when I look at that list it seems to have “hit the nail on the head”.

Then within three years it all slowly began to fall apart, business wise, thankfully not family wise our “Polynesian Inheritance” is so strong, family always come first!

Where was I going wrong?

What was I doing wrong?

Whose fault was it?

Why now when we seemed so successful?

A myriad of questions passed through my mind, I began to blame myself, I was making wrong decisions.

I had begun a downward slide a personal one that took away my mental fortitude, my belief, my self-confidence, I lost motivation, the thing that really hurts me when I think back is that, “I didn’t really care anymore” I began to think that the world owed me, I was a good person so for that I should be rewarded. What a “Pity party”, darn pitiful is all I can say now!

After all these years I am finally getting back on track!

I realise that age and the new generation means I can never be what I was back then, why?

Well that’s the past and I now live for today!

Not tomorrow!

I have found a “Certain Way” that has been available to each and every one of us for more than ninety years.

Probably what W Clement Stone and Napoleon Hill and thousands of others used to become rich, but forgot to tell us some very vital points, whether they did it consciously or just took it for granted that we would figure it out, I am really not to sure.

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Have you ever heard a woman ask the question, “Where have all the real men gone?” I know, you want to just shake her and ask her what the HELL she is talking about, right? Well, the thing is – it seems that this “sensitive revolution” has basically neutered the male population.

Some folks attribute that to the fact that more and more men are being raised by single women. Others say that we are all doing it to ourselves – taking everything out of life that might accidentally offend an individual’s beliefs – trying to neuter EVERYTHING (like taking “God” out of the pledge of allegiance, taking the discipline out of schools and making sure everything that we say is politically correct to name a few methods).

Whatever you believe – it’s happening. Society is turning Namby Pamby – and the women are the ones voicing it, asking where all the real men have gone. To try to find a REAL man, women have developed a screening process – a test, if you will, to see if a man is a real man, or a wuss in man’s clothing.

You’ll notice women doing this when they are exploring the possibility of a relationship with you – like on a first date, or when things begin to become intimate. This is how the beautiful women separate the men from the boys. She is trying to find out, basically, if you are an alpha-male.

There are many forms tests can take, of course, but once you are familiar with a few of them, you will be able to recognize them for what they are, and PASS them. She might ask you for a gift or something she wants. She could act snotty or have a tantrum, to see what she can get away with, or cancel your plans without notice to see what you do. She might even tell you that you are annoying her to see if you will change your behavior. (By the way, I learned all this by watching David DeAngelo’s program called On Being a Man!)

Now – these things may seem small to you. However, to a woman, they are CRITICAL. If you fail one of these tests, she is going to do one of two things – she is going to realize you are a wuss and not a real man and will walk all over you until she gets bored with you and then she will leave, or she will just realize you are a wuss and leave then.

So – how do you pass these tests and show her you are an alpha-male? Well, let’s imagine for a moment that you are a wolf – the leader of the pack, the alpha-male who gets ALL the females in the pack. If a female wolf came up to the alpha-male and said, “Buy me this pretty trinket and I will give you the night of your life…” – what do you think he would do? Would he go running off to the nearest wolf jewelry store and buy it? Or would he laugh and say “Are you serious??? I hope not, because if you have not noticed, there are plenty of females in this pack besides you.”

Or, say for instance, one of the female wolves tells the alpha-male that she is annoyed by something he does. Does the alpha wolf say “OMG I am SO sorry! I won’t EVER do that again!” (I actually can see David DeAngelo cringing at that, sorry man!) Uhhhhh – NO. He will give her a playful smile and say, “Oh REALLY?” – and then he will do it again just to show her that she is not the alpha – HE IS.

And guys – this is IMPORTANT. Women talk about Prince Charming – how they just KNOW he is out there and what all he will do for them. But did you ever notice that Prince Charming has to know how to fight, how to keep the kingdom running, sweep her off her feet and take her to a destination of HIS choosing? Prince Charming does not ask the Princess if she would like to be rescued today. He takes charge and DOES IT, and she will follow. If you want to learn more about being an alpha-male, then take a look at David DeAngelo’s program, On Being a Man, and start giving women what they really want.